"I'm tired of being around men all the time. I'm going to start a band called Skirt with three girls and I'll play the guitar and sing backing vocals in drag. I went window shopping when I was in New York, saw a lot of amazing dresses"
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The proposed band name, Skirt, is a provocation with a wink. It’s weaponized simplicity: one garment standing in for an entire regime of expectations. By placing himself in drag while relegating himself to “backing vocals,” Molko flips the usual hierarchy. The frontman archetype is a rock relic he’s happy to sabotage; the point is to de-center the male voice even when the male body is still present. It’s allyship, but also self-mythmaking: Molko’s persona has long thrived on ambiguity, and he understands that style can be argument.
The “window shopping” detail matters because it drags the fantasy into the everyday. Not a manifesto, a spree. Dresses aren’t symbols in a theory seminar; they’re objects of desire and experimentation. In the late-90s/early-2000s orbit that Molko helped define, gender play was both a genuine search for self and a calculated refusal of rock’s macho script. The charm here is that the refusal sounds impulsive, even giddy - which is exactly how cultural change often begins: not with permission, but with boredom and a new outfit.
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Molko, Brian. (2026, January 17). I'm tired of being around men all the time. I'm going to start a band called Skirt with three girls and I'll play the guitar and sing backing vocals in drag. I went window shopping when I was in New York, saw a lot of amazing dresses. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-tired-of-being-around-men-all-the-time-im-42883/
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Molko, Brian. "I'm tired of being around men all the time. I'm going to start a band called Skirt with three girls and I'll play the guitar and sing backing vocals in drag. I went window shopping when I was in New York, saw a lot of amazing dresses." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-tired-of-being-around-men-all-the-time-im-42883/.
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"I'm tired of being around men all the time. I'm going to start a band called Skirt with three girls and I'll play the guitar and sing backing vocals in drag. I went window shopping when I was in New York, saw a lot of amazing dresses." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-tired-of-being-around-men-all-the-time-im-42883/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





