"I'm totally Italian, but I'm not a diva. If you could see the way I'm dressed in daily life, that's not a diva. Appearances are so not important to me"
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The subtext isn’t just humility; it’s a bid for authority. In theater culture, “diva” is rarely neutral. It can mean excellence and command, but it’s also the gendered workplace euphemism for “difficult” - a label that follows powerful women faster than it follows men with the same demands. By insisting her daily life doesn’t match the costume of celebrity (“If you could see the way I’m dressed…”), LuPone separates craft from branding. She’s arguing that what reads as diva behavior onstage or in rehearsal is professionalism, not vanity.
“Appearances are so not important to me” lands as both defense and critique. In an industry built on image, she’s framing herself as an artist who refuses the obligatory performance of “likability” and polish offstage. It’s also a canny reset of the public’s gaze: stop auditing my outfits and start listening to the work. The irony is that even rejecting the diva myth requires staging a persona. LuPone just stages one with boots-on-the-ground credibility.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
LuPone, Patti. (2026, January 16). I'm totally Italian, but I'm not a diva. If you could see the way I'm dressed in daily life, that's not a diva. Appearances are so not important to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-totally-italian-but-im-not-a-diva-if-you-could-115052/
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LuPone, Patti. "I'm totally Italian, but I'm not a diva. If you could see the way I'm dressed in daily life, that's not a diva. Appearances are so not important to me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-totally-italian-but-im-not-a-diva-if-you-could-115052/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm totally Italian, but I'm not a diva. If you could see the way I'm dressed in daily life, that's not a diva. Appearances are so not important to me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-totally-italian-but-im-not-a-diva-if-you-could-115052/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.



