"I'm trying to die correctly, but it's very difficult, you know"
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The subtext is both vanity and resistance. Vanity, because the speaker still wants authorship at the final curtain, refusing to be merely a body that stops. Resistance, because the line refuses the clean moral arc we often demand from death - bravery, redemption, serenity. Durrell replaces those pieties with a frank admission of difficulty, punctured by "you know", a conspiratorial tag that recruits the listener into complicity. It’s intimate and faintly comic, as if the speaker is whispering in the hallway at a party about the terrible logistics of being mortal.
Context matters: Durrell’s work is saturated with expatriate sophistication and Mediterranean sensuality, but also with the awareness that identity is a performance staged across places, lovers, and languages. In that light, "die correctly" sounds like the last role in a lifelong theater of self-making. The sting is that even the best stylists can’t finally revise the ending.
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| Topic | Mortality |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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Durrell, Lawrence. (n.d.). I'm trying to die correctly, but it's very difficult, you know. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-trying-to-die-correctly-but-its-very-difficult-7550/
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Durrell, Lawrence. "I'm trying to die correctly, but it's very difficult, you know." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-trying-to-die-correctly-but-its-very-difficult-7550/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm trying to die correctly, but it's very difficult, you know." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-trying-to-die-correctly-but-its-very-difficult-7550/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








