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Life & Mortality Quote by Lawrence Durrell

"I'm trying to die correctly, but it's very difficult, you know"

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Dying "correctly" is a deliciously perverse ambition: it turns the one event no one controls into an aesthetic project, the sort of private performance a Durrell character would workshop like a line of dialogue. The joke lands because the adverb is doing all the work. "Correctly" smuggles in manners, taste, and technique - as if death were an etiquette dinner party you could botch by using the wrong fork. It’s a writer’s move: converting existential terror into craft, implying there’s a style guide even for extinction.

The subtext is both vanity and resistance. Vanity, because the speaker still wants authorship at the final curtain, refusing to be merely a body that stops. Resistance, because the line refuses the clean moral arc we often demand from death - bravery, redemption, serenity. Durrell replaces those pieties with a frank admission of difficulty, punctured by "you know", a conspiratorial tag that recruits the listener into complicity. It’s intimate and faintly comic, as if the speaker is whispering in the hallway at a party about the terrible logistics of being mortal.

Context matters: Durrell’s work is saturated with expatriate sophistication and Mediterranean sensuality, but also with the awareness that identity is a performance staged across places, lovers, and languages. In that light, "die correctly" sounds like the last role in a lifelong theater of self-making. The sting is that even the best stylists can’t finally revise the ending.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Durrell, Lawrence. (n.d.). I'm trying to die correctly, but it's very difficult, you know. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-trying-to-die-correctly-but-its-very-difficult-7550/

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Durrell, Lawrence. "I'm trying to die correctly, but it's very difficult, you know." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-trying-to-die-correctly-but-its-very-difficult-7550/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm trying to die correctly, but it's very difficult, you know." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-trying-to-die-correctly-but-its-very-difficult-7550/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Lawrence Durrell (January 27, 1912 - November 7, 1990) was a Writer from United Kingdom.

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