"I'm very definitely a woman and I enjoy it"
About this Quote
The subtext is strategic: enjoyment becomes a rebuttal to the era’s double bind. If she leaned into sexuality, she was “asking for it”; if she resisted, she was “difficult.” By foregrounding enjoyment, she refuses the premise that femininity is either a burden to endure or a performance for male approval. It’s a neat inversion: the gaze doesn’t get to be the final author of her meaning.
There’s also a sharper edge. Monroe’s celebrity depended on selling an image of femininity so intensified it became almost cartoonish, yet she’s reminding you that behind the image is a person who experiences her own gender from the inside. The sentence is simple enough to fit on a postcard, which is precisely why it works: it meets the public where it is, then quietly reroutes the power back to her.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monroe, Marilyn. (n.d.). I'm very definitely a woman and I enjoy it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-very-definitely-a-woman-and-i-enjoy-it-26225/
Chicago Style
Monroe, Marilyn. "I'm very definitely a woman and I enjoy it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-very-definitely-a-woman-and-i-enjoy-it-26225/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm very definitely a woman and I enjoy it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-very-definitely-a-woman-and-i-enjoy-it-26225/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




