"I'm very wary about giving advice. I think it's very dangerous to give advice to people, except if you know them very well"
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The line hinges on the exception clause: “except if you know them very well.” That’s the whole ethic. Advice isn’t dangerous because people are fragile; it’s dangerous because people are specific. Without intimacy, you’re prescribing for an imagined person - a character you’ve invented - and then acting surprised when the plot goes off-script. It’s a performer’s insight applied to real life: you can’t play a role convincingly without backstory, stakes, and contradictions; you can’t advise someone responsibly without the same.
There’s also a subtle rebuke of public moralizing. In a culture that rewards hot takes and “life hacks,” Sharif suggests that unsolicited counsel is often just self-expression wearing a halo. His caution restores proportion: listening is harder than advising, and it’s the prerequisite. The intent isn’t to withhold help; it’s to insist that help starts with knowing who you’re actually talking to.
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Sharif, Omar. (2026, January 17). I'm very wary about giving advice. I think it's very dangerous to give advice to people, except if you know them very well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-very-wary-about-giving-advice-i-think-its-very-80084/
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Sharif, Omar. "I'm very wary about giving advice. I think it's very dangerous to give advice to people, except if you know them very well." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-very-wary-about-giving-advice-i-think-its-very-80084/.
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"I'm very wary about giving advice. I think it's very dangerous to give advice to people, except if you know them very well." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-very-wary-about-giving-advice-i-think-its-very-80084/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










