"Imagine for yourself a character, a model personality, whose example you determine to follow, in private as well as in public"
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Epictetus doesn’t offer self-expression here; he offers self-surveillance. The line is a piece of practical engineering: build an inner standard so sturdy that you don’t need the crowd to hold you up. “Imagine for yourself a character” sounds like creative writing, but the intent is closer to drafting a constitution for the self. Stoicism is often misread as emotional refrigeration; this is something sharper and more demanding: disciplined consistency.
The key move is the “model personality” you “determine to follow.” Not discover, not drift into, not negotiate with. You choose an exemplar and then consent to be measured against it. That’s the subtext: virtue isn’t a mood; it’s a policy. And policies matter most where no one is watching. “In private as well as in public” targets the oldest loophole in moral life: performative goodness. Epictetus, who taught in the Roman world where reputation could be currency and danger, is warning that applause is a corrupting incentive. Public virtue is easy to counterfeit because it pays.
Context matters: Epictetus was born enslaved and later taught that the only real freedom is governance of what’s “up to you” - your judgments, choices, and habits. This quote sits in that tradition. If external conditions can be arbitrary, then integrity becomes the one domain you can actually possess. The imagined “character” isn’t cosplay; it’s a counterweight to a chaotic world and to your own rationalizations. He’s telling you to pick your north star and live like your private life counts, because it does.
The key move is the “model personality” you “determine to follow.” Not discover, not drift into, not negotiate with. You choose an exemplar and then consent to be measured against it. That’s the subtext: virtue isn’t a mood; it’s a policy. And policies matter most where no one is watching. “In private as well as in public” targets the oldest loophole in moral life: performative goodness. Epictetus, who taught in the Roman world where reputation could be currency and danger, is warning that applause is a corrupting incentive. Public virtue is easy to counterfeit because it pays.
Context matters: Epictetus was born enslaved and later taught that the only real freedom is governance of what’s “up to you” - your judgments, choices, and habits. This quote sits in that tradition. If external conditions can be arbitrary, then integrity becomes the one domain you can actually possess. The imagined “character” isn’t cosplay; it’s a counterweight to a chaotic world and to your own rationalizations. He’s telling you to pick your north star and live like your private life counts, because it does.
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