"In 1977 we played America and Europe three times, and Japan - my marriage suffered as a result. My then wife took the kids to Canada to be near her parents"
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The intent reads as a retrospective confession delivered in the plain, slightly stunned language of someone still tallying the damage. Collins doesn`t dramatize the breakup; he almost understates it. That understatement is the subtext. By framing the marriage as something that "suffered as a result", he casts the collapse as an occupational hazard, a side effect of success rather than a personal failure - and that tells you how the music business trains its stars to narrate their own losses.
The detail about his wife taking the kids to Canada is doing heavy emotional work. It isn`t just geography; it`s a quiet declaration of alignment and refuge: when the touring machine took Collins out of the home, she rebuilt "home" around her parents. The context of 1977 matters, too: this is pre-texting, pre-Zoom, pre-anything that might soften distance. Global stardom meant real absence. Collins is sketching the origin story of a theme that would later echo through his catalog: intimacy strained by relentless momentum, the beat going on even as the domestic song falls apart.
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Collins, Phil. (2026, January 16). In 1977 we played America and Europe three times, and Japan - my marriage suffered as a result. My then wife took the kids to Canada to be near her parents. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-1977-we-played-america-and-europe-three-times-89624/
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Collins, Phil. "In 1977 we played America and Europe three times, and Japan - my marriage suffered as a result. My then wife took the kids to Canada to be near her parents." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-1977-we-played-america-and-europe-three-times-89624/.
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"In 1977 we played America and Europe three times, and Japan - my marriage suffered as a result. My then wife took the kids to Canada to be near her parents." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-1977-we-played-america-and-europe-three-times-89624/. Accessed 27 Mar. 2026.





