"In all honesty my cake was baking when I met Al - I had made up in my mind already to get physically healthy. He refreshingly was on his own journey so it was almost as if we walked together"
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The phrasing is also strategic. “In all honesty” signals there’s a narrative people expect - the before/after love story, the savior partner - and she’s correcting it. Then she offers a softer, more modern relationship ideal: parallel growth. Al is “refreshingly” on his own journey, which reads like a dig at partners who either resist change or try to manage it. The refreshment isn’t just compatibility; it’s the relief of not being policed.
“Almost as if we walked together” keeps the romance intact while refusing codependency. The “almost” matters: she won’t pretend they share a single origin story, only that their trajectories aligned. In a celebrity ecosystem that rewards tidy narratives, Jones insists on messier truth: personal change isn’t sparked by meeting the right person; the best relationships simply don’t get in the way of the work.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jones, Star. (n.d.). In all honesty my cake was baking when I met Al - I had made up in my mind already to get physically healthy. He refreshingly was on his own journey so it was almost as if we walked together. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-all-honesty-my-cake-was-baking-when-i-met-al--90673/
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Jones, Star. "In all honesty my cake was baking when I met Al - I had made up in my mind already to get physically healthy. He refreshingly was on his own journey so it was almost as if we walked together." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-all-honesty-my-cake-was-baking-when-i-met-al--90673/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In all honesty my cake was baking when I met Al - I had made up in my mind already to get physically healthy. He refreshingly was on his own journey so it was almost as if we walked together." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-all-honesty-my-cake-was-baking-when-i-met-al--90673/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






