"In fact I am quite snappy and irritable, and I don't know if I'd like to make myself worse in that respect"
About this Quote
The real pivot is the second clause: “I don’t know if I’d like to make myself worse in that respect.” It’s a sly rejection of the cultural script that says self-improvement should always mean sanding yourself down into something more pleasant to be around. Lawson isn’t insisting she’s right to be irritable; she’s saying she’s realistic about her own thresholds. There’s an almost domestic politics to it: a woman’s temperament is treated as a public utility, something owed to family, partners, viewers, readers. She’s negotiating that demand out loud.
Context matters because Lawson’s public image sits at the intersection of aspiration and intimacy. Her brand sells comfort, sensuality, and “effortless” hospitality, yet here she punctures the illusion by admitting the backstage mood. The intent isn’t confession for its own sake; it’s control. She gets to narrate herself before anyone else does, turning potential criticism into a punchline and, more importantly, a boundary.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Improvement |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Lawson, Nigella. (2026, January 18). In fact I am quite snappy and irritable, and I don't know if I'd like to make myself worse in that respect. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-fact-i-am-quite-snappy-and-irritable-and-i-12306/
Chicago Style
Lawson, Nigella. "In fact I am quite snappy and irritable, and I don't know if I'd like to make myself worse in that respect." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-fact-i-am-quite-snappy-and-irritable-and-i-12306/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In fact I am quite snappy and irritable, and I don't know if I'd like to make myself worse in that respect." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-fact-i-am-quite-snappy-and-irritable-and-i-12306/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








