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Motherhood Quote by Ethel Waters

"In her whole life Mom never earned more than five or six dollars a week. Being without a husband, it was hard for her to find any place at all for us to live"

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Poverty here isn’t a mood or a backdrop; it’s a weekly wage with an insult baked in. Ethel Waters gives you the number first - five or six dollars - because math is harder to romanticize than adjectives. That figure does more than mark hardship; it pins down a whole system where a Black woman’s labor could be constant and still not count as “enough” to qualify for stability. The sentence is spare, almost documentary, and that plainness is the point: Waters refuses the sentimental lens that often frames poor mothers as either saints or cautionary tales.

The quiet pivot is “Being without a husband.” It’s not confession, it’s indictment. In a single clause, Waters exposes how housing was policed through respectability and dependency: landlords, employers, and social norms treating marriage as a kind of rental credential. The subtext is that “family values” functioned like an economic gate, withholding basic shelter from women who didn’t fit the sanctioned template. Her mother’s problem isn’t only low pay; it’s a society designed to punish female autonomy and to make survival contingent on a man’s presence.

Waters’ context matters: she came up in an America where race, gender, and class collided with particular cruelty, and where entertainment was one of the few ladders available. By starting with her mother’s constraint, she frames her own later success not as mythic “making it,” but as escape velocity from a rigged baseline. The restraint in her tone is its sharpest edge: she doesn’t ask for pity; she supplies evidence.

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Ethel Waters (October 31, 1896 - September 1, 1977) was a Musician from USA.

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