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Daily Inspiration Quote by Graham Greene

"In human relationships, kindness and lies are worth a thousand truths"

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Greene’s line lands like a moral confession disguised as etiquette: in the messy economy of intimacy, truth is rarely the highest currency. “Kindness and lies” is a deliberately unsettling pairing, because it forces the reader to admit how often affection depends on selective reality. The sentence doesn’t praise deceit as virtue; it treats it as social infrastructure, the soft scaffolding that keeps relationships from collapsing under the weight of full disclosure.

The genius is in the arithmetic. “Worth a thousand truths” isn’t just hyperbole; it’s an indictment of truth’s poor conversion rate in domestic life. A single unfiltered fact can detonate years of fragile peace, while a small lie - “you look fine,” “it doesn’t matter,” “I’m over it” - can buy time, dignity, even mercy. Greene is less interested in the ethics of lying than in its function: the way people curate information to protect each other, or to protect themselves while pretending it’s for the other person.

Context matters because Greene’s work is crowded with compromised decency: Catholics with guilty consciences, lovers trading tenderness for silence, characters doing the wrong thing for reasons that feel almost right. As a playwright, he understood the stagecraft of human interaction - dialogue as performance, omission as plot. The subtext is bleak but recognizably human: relationships are not courts of law; they’re negotiations. Kindness often arrives wearing the mask of untruth, and Greene dares you to ask whether you actually want the mask removed.

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Greene, Graham. (2026, January 15). In human relationships, kindness and lies are worth a thousand truths. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-human-relationships-kindness-and-lies-are-156662/

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Greene, Graham. "In human relationships, kindness and lies are worth a thousand truths." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-human-relationships-kindness-and-lies-are-156662/.

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"In human relationships, kindness and lies are worth a thousand truths." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-human-relationships-kindness-and-lies-are-156662/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Graham Greene (October 2, 1904 - April 3, 1991) was a Playwright from United Kingdom.

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