"In LA, I mean, here's this place full of desperate and sad people who take their only pleasure from destroying others for the purposes of their own self-aggrandizement"
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The sting comes from the verb choice: “destroying.” Not criticizing, not competing, not even “taking down” - destroying. It suggests social annihilation as a sport, reputational arson as a way to feel briefly powerful. The phrase “their only pleasure” is deliberately absolute, and that extremity matters: it’s the emotional register of someone who’s been chewed up by a system that rewards humiliation as currency. If you can’t be loved, you can at least be feared; if you can’t be seen for your work, you can be seen for your takedown.
Context matters: coming from an actress, this isn’t armchair sociology. It’s an inside report from a profession built on being evaluated, ranked, and replaced in public. Donahue’s subtext isn’t just “LA is fake.” It’s that status economies hollow people out until self-aggrandizement feels like self-preservation, and collateral damage becomes an acceptable byproduct of staying afloat.
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| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Donahue, Heather. (2026, January 16). In LA, I mean, here's this place full of desperate and sad people who take their only pleasure from destroying others for the purposes of their own self-aggrandizement. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-la-i-mean-heres-this-place-full-of-desperate-95808/
Chicago Style
Donahue, Heather. "In LA, I mean, here's this place full of desperate and sad people who take their only pleasure from destroying others for the purposes of their own self-aggrandizement." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-la-i-mean-heres-this-place-full-of-desperate-95808/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In LA, I mean, here's this place full of desperate and sad people who take their only pleasure from destroying others for the purposes of their own self-aggrandizement." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-la-i-mean-heres-this-place-full-of-desperate-95808/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.







