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Love Quote by Isabelle Adjani

"In love, one should simplify, choose persons worthy of their promises and leave them if they don't keep them"

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Adjani’s line lands like a corrective to the romantic scripts actresses are often asked to embody: love as suffering, love as spectacle, love as endless second chances. Instead, she proposes something almost scandalously un-cinematic - simplification. It’s a word that belongs to self-management, not grand passion, and that’s precisely the point. She’s stripping love of its baroque justifications and returning it to a testable claim: promises made, promises kept.

“Choose persons worthy of their promises” quietly flips the usual emphasis. We’re trained to vet chemistry, aesthetics, intensity - the stuff that reads well on screen. Adjani centers credibility. Worthiness isn’t about potential; it’s about demonstrated alignment between speech and behavior. The subtext is adult, even slightly ruthless: love isn’t proven by how much you feel, but by how reliably someone shows up to the reality they helped create with their words.

Then comes the hard edge: “leave them if they don’t keep them.” No melodrama, no therapeutic hedging, no talk of “working through it.” The intent is boundary-setting as liberation, especially for anyone socialized to confuse loyalty with endurance. Coming from a French star long associated with intense, psychologically charged roles, the advice reads like an anti-mythology: you can have depth without chaos; you can have romance without martyrdom.

It’s also a cultural statement about time. In an era of situationships and strategic ambiguity, Adjani insists on clarity and consequences - not as punishment, but as respect for your own life.

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Isabelle Adjani

Isabelle Adjani (born June 27, 1955) is a Actress from France.

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