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Love Quote by Marguerite Duras

"In love there are no vacations. No such thing. Love has to be lived fully with its boredom and all that"

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Duras guts the romantic myth with a bureaucratic word: vacations. It’s funny in the way a door slamming is funny - abrupt, final, a little cruel. A “vacation” implies clocking out, a clean break, the idea that feeling can be scheduled like PTO. Duras refuses that fantasy. Love, in her telling, isn’t a weekend getaway from ordinary life; it is ordinary life, and it keeps charging rent even when nothing “happens.”

The sharp turn is “with its boredom.” Most love-talk is structured like advertising: peaks, novelty, the promise of perpetual intensity. Duras insists on the opposite: repetition, dead air, the dull ache of familiarity. She’s not anti-love; she’s anti-romance-as-entertainment. The subtext is that boredom isn’t a bug in intimacy, it’s the proof you stayed long enough for reality to arrive. If you can’t tolerate the flat stretches, you don’t want love, you want stimulation.

Context matters: Duras wrote from inside postwar disillusionment and the stripped-down emotional realism of French modernism. Her fiction often treats desire as both trance and trap, a force that doesn’t respect comfort or self-mythology. “Lived fully” sounds generous, but it’s also an ultimatum. No sabbaticals, no safe distance, no curated highlight reel. The line dares you to admit what you’re actually signing up for: not just passion, but persistence, the unglamorous continuity that makes devotion either deepen or suffocate.

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Marguerite Duras (April 4, 1914 - March 3, 1996) was a Novelist from France.

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