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"In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?"

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The swagger of expertise drains out of Rogers's first question, and what replaces it is almost radical humility. "Treat, or cure, or change" is the therapist-as-mechanic fantasy: identify the malfunction, apply the fix, send the person back into the world running smoother. Rogers stages that early mindset as a confession, not a credential. It's a subtle indictment of a whole 20th-century faith in technical authority, where psychology could mimic medicine by making the patient an object to be repaired.

The pivot to "provide a relationship" is the real power move. He doesn't swap one technique for another; he swaps the unit of change. Growth happens not because the expert intervenes, but because the person can "use" the encounter. That verb matters. The client isn't a case file; they're an agent. The therapist's job becomes environmental: create conditions - safety, attention, nonjudgment - that let self-understanding emerge without being forced into shape.

Context sharpens the intent. Rogers helped define humanistic psychology in a period dominated by behaviorism's levers and psychoanalysis's excavations. His "relationship" language is a quiet rebellion against both: not conditioning a subject, not interpreting a psyche from above, but trusting the organism's capacity to move toward coherence when it's met with genuine regard.

Subtext: this isn't just about therapy. It's an argument about power. Stop asking how to change people. Ask what kind of space makes change possible - and who gets to own it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rogers, Carl. (2026, January 14). In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-early-professional-years-i-was-asking-the-2981/

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Rogers, Carl. "In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?" FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-early-professional-years-i-was-asking-the-2981/.

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"In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?" FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-early-professional-years-i-was-asking-the-2981/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Carl Rogers (January 8, 1902 - February 4, 1987) was a Psychologist from USA.

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