"In my experience it's not essential to get on with the person that you're acting opposite"
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The intent is almost reassuringly unromantic: acting is a job, and jobs demand professionalism under imperfect conditions. The subtext is a quiet rebuke to the industry’s obsession with “vibes” and personal compatibility. If you make getting along “essential,” you hand your performance over to luck, personality, and off-camera dynamics. Dancy insists on technique as the stabilizer: listening, timing, shared objectives, and the discipline to play a scene truthfully even when you’d rather avoid the person at craft services.
Context matters because film and TV are built on forced intimacy. Actors are asked to simulate love, hatred, trust, betrayal - often out of sequence, under time pressure, in front of crews. Not “getting on” can even be useful: friction can sharpen choices, complicate energy, add voltage to a scene. The line also hints at boundaries. In an era when sets are interrogating power and consent, the idea that you don’t need personal closeness to create convincing closeness can be protective. Dancy’s point lands because it’s anti-glamour: the magic isn’t the relationship; it’s the work.
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"In my experience it's not essential to get on with the person that you're acting opposite." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-experience-its-not-essential-to-get-on-with-90916/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.









