"In my own mind, I am still a fat brunette from Toledo, and I always will be"
About this Quote
The specific intent is disarming. By invoking a younger self marked by classed, regional, and gendered judgments (Toledo as shorthand for not-New-York, not-cosmopolitan; “fat” as the original sin in American femininity), she punctures the myth that success erases the body’s old humiliations. Steinem is telling you that the gaze sticks. Activism doesn’t grant immunity from the culture’s most basic grading system.
The subtext cuts deeper: even the woman who helped rewrite the terms of women’s public life still carries the private residue of a world built to shrink her. That’s not confession for confession’s sake; it’s solidarity by refusing exceptionality. If the icon admits she’s still haunted, then ordinary women don’t have to treat their own hauntings as personal failure.
Context matters: Steinem became a media figure in a movement that was relentlessly policed through appearance, age, and attractiveness. The line is a reminder that feminism isn’t a makeover story. It’s a struggle waged while the old voices keep talking.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Steinem, Gloria. (2026, January 15). In my own mind, I am still a fat brunette from Toledo, and I always will be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-own-mind-i-am-still-a-fat-brunette-from-146538/
Chicago Style
Steinem, Gloria. "In my own mind, I am still a fat brunette from Toledo, and I always will be." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-own-mind-i-am-still-a-fat-brunette-from-146538/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In my own mind, I am still a fat brunette from Toledo, and I always will be." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-my-own-mind-i-am-still-a-fat-brunette-from-146538/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.






