"In November, 1964 when I was a patient at the Mayo Clinic I though seriously about killing myself"
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The shock in Jerry Kramer’s line isn’t just the suicide ideation; it’s the collision between cultural mythology and private reality. Here’s a star athlete in 1964, inside the Mayo Clinic, admitting he “though seriously about killing myself” with almost no cushioning language. The bluntness reads like a confession made after years of being trained to speak in clichés about toughness. The missing “t” in “thought” even adds a grim authenticity: this isn’t polished inspiration, it’s memory, typed out the way pain often comes back - jagged and unfinished.
Context does a lot of work here. The mid-1960s sports world sold masculinity as stoicism, injury as inconvenience, and mental distress as weakness or “nerves.” If Kramer was at Mayo, it suggests something serious enough to pierce even a pro football player’s armor - physical ailment, chronic pain, or a crisis that made the body feel like an unreliable tool. For an athlete whose identity is built on performance, that kind of vulnerability can feel like an eviction from the self.
The intent is partly corrective: to puncture the myth that success inoculates you against despair. The subtext is even sharper: if someone as outwardly “strong” as an NFL lineman could reach that edge, then the old code of silence wasn’t just outdated, it was dangerous. Kramer isn’t asking for pity. He’s making a record, retroactively reclaiming a moment when the culture offered him almost no language - and no permission - to be human.
Context does a lot of work here. The mid-1960s sports world sold masculinity as stoicism, injury as inconvenience, and mental distress as weakness or “nerves.” If Kramer was at Mayo, it suggests something serious enough to pierce even a pro football player’s armor - physical ailment, chronic pain, or a crisis that made the body feel like an unreliable tool. For an athlete whose identity is built on performance, that kind of vulnerability can feel like an eviction from the self.
The intent is partly corrective: to puncture the myth that success inoculates you against despair. The subtext is even sharper: if someone as outwardly “strong” as an NFL lineman could reach that edge, then the old code of silence wasn’t just outdated, it was dangerous. Kramer isn’t asking for pity. He’s making a record, retroactively reclaiming a moment when the culture offered him almost no language - and no permission - to be human.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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