"In November, 1964 when I was a patient at the Mayo Clinic I though seriously about killing myself"
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Context does a lot of work here. The mid-1960s sports world sold masculinity as stoicism, injury as inconvenience, and mental distress as weakness or “nerves.” If Kramer was at Mayo, it suggests something serious enough to pierce even a pro football player’s armor - physical ailment, chronic pain, or a crisis that made the body feel like an unreliable tool. For an athlete whose identity is built on performance, that kind of vulnerability can feel like an eviction from the self.
The intent is partly corrective: to puncture the myth that success inoculates you against despair. The subtext is even sharper: if someone as outwardly “strong” as an NFL lineman could reach that edge, then the old code of silence wasn’t just outdated, it was dangerous. Kramer isn’t asking for pity. He’s making a record, retroactively reclaiming a moment when the culture offered him almost no language - and no permission - to be human.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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Kramer, Jerry. (n.d.). In November, 1964 when I was a patient at the Mayo Clinic I though seriously about killing myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-november-1964-when-i-was-a-patient-at-the-mayo-125303/
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"In November, 1964 when I was a patient at the Mayo Clinic I though seriously about killing myself." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-november-1964-when-i-was-a-patient-at-the-mayo-125303/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






