"In our rich consumers' civilization we spin cocoons around ourselves and get possessed by our possessions"
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The “cocoons” image does double work. Cocoons are protective and self-made, a cozy story consumers tell themselves: comfort, safety, convenience, status. But cocoons are also isolating, narrowing your field of vision until the world is reduced to what you can buy, upgrade, curate. Lerner’s subtext is that consumer culture doesn’t merely distract; it reorganizes the self. The trap is voluntary, which makes it harder to see and easier to defend.
Then he flips the usual logic of ownership: “get possessed by our possessions.” The line carries a faint exorcism vibe, suggesting haunting rather than happiness. Possessions become obligations (maintenance, debt, storage, insurance), social signals (keeping up, flexing, fitting in), and psychic anchors (the fear of loss, the shame of not having). In mid-20th-century America, when mass advertising, suburban growth, and postwar affluence were rapidly redefining the “good life,” Lerner is warning that prosperity can produce a softer kind of captivity: not imposed by the state, but by taste, marketing, and the self’s hunger for reassurance.
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Lerner, Max. (2026, January 15). In our rich consumers' civilization we spin cocoons around ourselves and get possessed by our possessions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-our-rich-consumers-civilization-we-spin-156785/
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"In our rich consumers' civilization we spin cocoons around ourselves and get possessed by our possessions." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-our-rich-consumers-civilization-we-spin-156785/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










