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Wit & Attitude Quote by Thomas Wolfe

"In Sleep we lie all naked and alone, in Sleep we are united at the heart of night and darkness, and we are strange and beautiful asleep; for we are dying the darkness and we know no death"

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Sleep, for Wolfe, is the one democracy humans can’t game: no status, no clothing, no performance. “Naked and alone” cuts past romance into biology and vulnerability, the stark privacy of a body unplugged from its public self. Then he pivots, almost contradicting himself, toward a communal mysticism: “united at the heart of night.” The move is classic Wolfean excess - solitary and collective in the same breath - because he’s not describing a social fact so much as a hunger. In the dark, the barriers that daylight enforces (ego, ambition, shame, narrative) dissolve, and that dissolution feels like belonging.

The subtext rides on a flirtation with annihilation. “We are dying the darkness” doesn’t mean we die in sleep; it means we rehearse death’s conditions: surrender, silence, the loss of self-consciousness. Wolfe’s sly comfort is that this practice comes without the knowledge that makes death terrifying. “We know no death” is the seduction of oblivion - not morbid, but merciful. Sleep becomes a nightly amnesty from the mind’s surveillance.

Context matters: Wolfe wrote in a modernist moment obsessed with fractured selves, urban loneliness, and the spiritual vacancy behind progress. His long, incantatory phrasing turns sleep into a ritual and an argument against the era’s relentless self-making. The intent isn’t to prettify rest; it’s to sanctify the temporary erasure of identity as the closest thing we get to peace, and to suggest that what we fear in death is, paradoxically, what we crave each night.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wolfe, Thomas. (2026, January 16). In Sleep we lie all naked and alone, in Sleep we are united at the heart of night and darkness, and we are strange and beautiful asleep; for we are dying the darkness and we know no death. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-sleep-we-lie-all-naked-and-alone-in-sleep-we-135326/

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Wolfe, Thomas. "In Sleep we lie all naked and alone, in Sleep we are united at the heart of night and darkness, and we are strange and beautiful asleep; for we are dying the darkness and we know no death." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-sleep-we-lie-all-naked-and-alone-in-sleep-we-135326/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In Sleep we lie all naked and alone, in Sleep we are united at the heart of night and darkness, and we are strange and beautiful asleep; for we are dying the darkness and we know no death." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-sleep-we-lie-all-naked-and-alone-in-sleep-we-135326/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Thomas Wolfe (October 3, 1900 - September 15, 1938) was a Novelist from USA.

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