"In Spain and Italy I would not have a life among the fans. Everyone wants to touch you, own you and approach you. I try to be as kind as possible to all my fans, but in those countries I could not do it. There they ask too much from you"
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The Spain-and-Italy specificity matters. Van Nistelrooy isn not condemning entire cultures so much as naming a particular football ecology: cities where the sport sits closer to religion than entertainment, where players are daily-life celebrities rather than distant TV figures. In that environment, the boundary between public and private gets treated as negotiable, especially for a star who symbolizes a club's pride and a weekend's emotional stakes.
His careful caveat - "I try to be as kind as possible" - reads like a veteran of the PR trap. Athletes are trained to perform gratitude, even while describing experiences that would qualify as harassment in any other workplace. When he says "they ask too much", the "too much" isn't about autographs; it's about access. Fans aren't only requesting a moment, they're requesting the right to interrupt his personhood.
Underneath the complaint is a modern paradox: the more a player is marketed as intimate and available, the more some supporters feel cheated by normal human distance. Van Nistelrooy is pushing back, politely, against a system that sells closeness and then blames the individual when closeness turns invasive.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Nistelrooy, Ruud van. (2026, January 15). In Spain and Italy I would not have a life among the fans. Everyone wants to touch you, own you and approach you. I try to be as kind as possible to all my fans, but in those countries I could not do it. There they ask too much from you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-spain-and-italy-i-would-not-have-a-life-among-152238/
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Nistelrooy, Ruud van. "In Spain and Italy I would not have a life among the fans. Everyone wants to touch you, own you and approach you. I try to be as kind as possible to all my fans, but in those countries I could not do it. There they ask too much from you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-spain-and-italy-i-would-not-have-a-life-among-152238/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In Spain and Italy I would not have a life among the fans. Everyone wants to touch you, own you and approach you. I try to be as kind as possible to all my fans, but in those countries I could not do it. There they ask too much from you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-spain-and-italy-i-would-not-have-a-life-among-152238/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.




