"In taking revenge, a man is but even with his enemy; but in passing it over, he is superior"
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Then comes the real flex: “passing it over” isn’t passive, it’s hierarchical. Bacon frames forgiveness (or, at least, restraint) as an assertion of rank. You don’t just refuse the blow-back; you demonstrate you’re not governed by the same compulsions, not forced into the predictable script of insult-and-response. It’s an argument for self-mastery dressed up as moral counsel, and it flatters the reader into choosing the nobler option by making it sound like power.
Context sharpens the edge. Bacon wrote as a court operator as much as a philosopher, in an England where vendettas, honor culture, and factional politics could ruin careers or end lives. In that world, revenge isn’t merely unethical; it’s strategically stupid. Public retaliation advertises wounded pride, escalates conflict, and invites counter-revenge. “Passing it over” reads like prudence for the ambitious: keep your hands clean, let time and institutions do the dirty work, and preserve the aura of authority.
The subtext is chillingly modern: the superior person isn’t the one who feels less anger, but the one who can afford not to act on it - and knows that composure itself is a form of dominance.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
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| Source | Francis Bacon, Essay "Of Revenge," in Essays (first published 1625). |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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