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Parenting & Family Quote by Parminder Nagra

"In terms of the frustration of my character, I suppose any teenager has probably gone through that, in terms of telling their parents, I want to do one thing, and their parent says no. I think parents sometimes forget that they were children"

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Parminder Nagra slips a whole coming-of-age argument into a casually phrased complaint: the teenage fight isn’t really about a single forbidden choice, it’s about being seen as a person with a future that doesn’t match the one your parents pre-approved. By anchoring her “character” in something “any teenager” knows, she’s not flattening the story into generic teen angst; she’s widening the aperture so the audience can recognize the emotional mechanics before the cultural specifics kick in. That’s a shrewd move for an actress whose breakout roles often hinge on familial pressure and identity negotiations: you enter through familiarity, then realize how high the stakes actually are.

The line “I want to do one thing, and their parent says no” is deliberately simple, almost childish in its grammar, mirroring the bluntness of adolescent desire. The real edge arrives in the last sentence: “parents sometimes forget that they were children.” It’s an accusation disguised as a soft observation. “Sometimes” offers plausible deniability, but the subtext is sharper: adulthood often launders memory, turning yesterday’s rebellion into today’s rulebook.

Contextually, Nagra is speaking from the double position of performer and former teenager, translating character motivation into a social truth: generational conflict isn’t a misunderstanding, it’s selective amnesia. The quote works because it refuses melodrama. It treats the domestic “no” as a political act inside the family, a boundary-setting that can either protect a child or erase them.

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Nagra, Parminder. (2026, January 16). In terms of the frustration of my character, I suppose any teenager has probably gone through that, in terms of telling their parents, I want to do one thing, and their parent says no. I think parents sometimes forget that they were children. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-terms-of-the-frustration-of-my-character-i-101285/

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Nagra, Parminder. "In terms of the frustration of my character, I suppose any teenager has probably gone through that, in terms of telling their parents, I want to do one thing, and their parent says no. I think parents sometimes forget that they were children." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-terms-of-the-frustration-of-my-character-i-101285/.

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"In terms of the frustration of my character, I suppose any teenager has probably gone through that, in terms of telling their parents, I want to do one thing, and their parent says no. I think parents sometimes forget that they were children." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-terms-of-the-frustration-of-my-character-i-101285/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Parminder Nagra (born October 5, 1975) is a Actress from England.

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