"In that I found being able to talk to my family about my feelings, praying for strength and realizing that our lives have a deep purpose and the journey of our lives is to find out what that is and express it, was the only way I could have gotten through it"
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The intent is practical, almost instructional: here is what worked when nothing else did. Yet the subtext is more pointed. Thomas quietly rejects the American fantasy of the self-contained hero who muscles through by sheer will. She names dependence without apology: family as a legitimate emotional infrastructure, faith as a resource, purpose as a stabilizer. Even the phrase "express it" sneaks in a performer’s worldview - meaning is not just discovered; it is staged, spoken, lived outwardly. Purpose becomes both compass and output.
Contextually, this lands in a late-20th/early-21st century therapeutic-spiritual vernacular where "feelings" and "journey" are not soft words but survival language. "The only way" is a rhetorical stake in the ground: not that suffering is redeemed by insight, but that insight is what makes suffering traversable. It’s resilience with a receipt, and it asks the listener to stop glamorizing toughness and start building rituals of connection and belief that can carry real weight.
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| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thomas, Marlo. (n.d.). In that I found being able to talk to my family about my feelings, praying for strength and realizing that our lives have a deep purpose and the journey of our lives is to find out what that is and express it, was the only way I could have gotten through it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-that-i-found-being-able-to-talk-to-my-family-127722/
Chicago Style
Thomas, Marlo. "In that I found being able to talk to my family about my feelings, praying for strength and realizing that our lives have a deep purpose and the journey of our lives is to find out what that is and express it, was the only way I could have gotten through it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-that-i-found-being-able-to-talk-to-my-family-127722/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In that I found being able to talk to my family about my feelings, praying for strength and realizing that our lives have a deep purpose and the journey of our lives is to find out what that is and express it, was the only way I could have gotten through it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-that-i-found-being-able-to-talk-to-my-family-127722/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




