"In the adversity of our best friends we often find something that does not displease us"
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As a 19th-century religious and political leader, Young is also doing governance by psychology. Communities fracture less from open enemies than from the quiet satisfactions people take in each other's stumbles: the relief that the admired are fallible, the confirmation that status can slip, the small rebalancing of envy. He folds that into a proverb-like cadence, the kind that can be repeated at a pulpit or around a table, turning a private vice into a shared caution.
The subtext is a warning about the social corrosiveness of concealed schadenfreude, especially in tight-knit groups built on moral aspiration. If your "best friends" can trigger that reaction, what happens with rivals, dissenters, or newcomers? Young's genius here is his unsparing realism: he doesn't flatter the flock. He reminds them that even affection can carry a shadow motive, and that spiritual community requires not just faith, but vigilance over the small, self-serving pleasures we take when other people fall.
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Young, Brigham. (2026, January 17). In the adversity of our best friends we often find something that does not displease us. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-adversity-of-our-best-friends-we-often-26648/
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"In the adversity of our best friends we often find something that does not displease us." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-adversity-of-our-best-friends-we-often-26648/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.









