"In the different voice of women lies the truth of an ethic of care, the tie between relationship and responsibility, and the origins of aggression in the failure of connection"
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Her intent is corrective but also political. By calling this voice “the truth of an ethic of care,” she isn’t merely asking for representation; she’s elevating relationship as an epistemology. The subtext is that detachment has been smuggled into science as neutrality, and that moral reasoning grounded in connection has been mislabeled sentimentality. “Tie between relationship and responsibility” is the hinge: responsibility isn’t obedience to principle, it’s accountability to people you can actually harm or help.
The sharpest move is the last clause. Aggression, she implies, doesn’t erupt from too much feeling but from too little connection: “the failure of connection.” That quietly indicts institutions that reward distance - competitive schooling, hierarchical workplaces, punitive justice - as not just cold but causative. In the context of 1970s-80s feminist scholarship, it’s a bid to change what counts as evidence and whose moral experience gets to define the human. Care isn’t soft; it’s diagnostic. It names the social fracture before it becomes violence.
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| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: In a Different Voice (Carol Gilligan, 1982)
Evidence: Yet in the different voice of women lies the truth of an ethic of care, the tie between relationship and responsibility, and the origins of aggression in the failure of connection. (Page 173 (as cited); likely near the end of the book). This is a verbatim excerpt shown on ReformJudaism.org with an explicit primary-source citation: “(Carol Gilligan, In a Different Voice, Harvard University Press, 1982, p.173)”. This strongly indicates the quote is from Gilligan’s own book and not originally from a speech/interview. However, I have not (in this search session) opened a scan/preview of the 1982 HUP book itself to independently verify the page image; the page-number attribution comes from this secondary site’s citation. Some quote-aggregation sites mis-cite it as p.131 in a 2009 edition; that suggests page numbers vary by edition/printing, so the safest verification step is to check the 1982 first edition text on/around p.173. Other candidates (1) Understanding the Social and Emotional Lives of Gifted St... (Thomas P. Hébert, 2021) compilation98.7% ... Carol Gilligan. In her groundbreaking work, In a ... in the different voice of women lies the truth of an ethic o... |
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"In the different voice of women lies the truth of an ethic of care, the tie between relationship and responsibility, and the origins of aggression in the failure of connection." FixQuotes, 13 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-different-voice-of-women-lies-the-truth-of-136006/. Accessed 26 Mar. 2026.








