"In the different voice of women lies the truth of an ethic of care, the tie between relationship and responsibility, and the origins of aggression in the failure of connection"
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Her intent is corrective but also political. By calling this voice “the truth of an ethic of care,” she isn’t merely asking for representation; she’s elevating relationship as an epistemology. The subtext is that detachment has been smuggled into science as neutrality, and that moral reasoning grounded in connection has been mislabeled sentimentality. “Tie between relationship and responsibility” is the hinge: responsibility isn’t obedience to principle, it’s accountability to people you can actually harm or help.
The sharpest move is the last clause. Aggression, she implies, doesn’t erupt from too much feeling but from too little connection: “the failure of connection.” That quietly indicts institutions that reward distance - competitive schooling, hierarchical workplaces, punitive justice - as not just cold but causative. In the context of 1970s-80s feminist scholarship, it’s a bid to change what counts as evidence and whose moral experience gets to define the human. Care isn’t soft; it’s diagnostic. It names the social fracture before it becomes violence.
Quote Details
| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
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| Source | In a Different Voice (Carol Gilligan, 1982) , quote commonly attributed to Gilligan's 1982 book on women's moral development. |
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Gilligan, Carol. (2026, January 14). In the different voice of women lies the truth of an ethic of care, the tie between relationship and responsibility, and the origins of aggression in the failure of connection. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-different-voice-of-women-lies-the-truth-of-136006/
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Gilligan, Carol. "In the different voice of women lies the truth of an ethic of care, the tie between relationship and responsibility, and the origins of aggression in the failure of connection." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-different-voice-of-women-lies-the-truth-of-136006/.
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"In the different voice of women lies the truth of an ethic of care, the tie between relationship and responsibility, and the origins of aggression in the failure of connection." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-different-voice-of-women-lies-the-truth-of-136006/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








