"In the last analysis, the individual person is responsible for living his own life and for "finding himself." If he persists in shifting his responsibility to somebody else, he fails to find out the meaning of his own existence"
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The phrasing does a neat two-step. First, it grants the legitimacy of the search - “finding himself” - then immediately punctures the fantasy that someone else can deliver it to you. Merton puts finding on the hook of responsibility: not self-expression, not self-optimization, but an ethical burden. The scare quotes around “finding himself” carry a faint suspicion, as if he’s warning against turning identity into a consumer quest. The meaning of existence isn’t a puzzle box with the right influencer code; it’s something disclosed through the act of living, choosing, and bearing consequences.
Context matters: mid-century America, thick with conformity, Cold War certainty, and the rise of mass culture. Merton watched people hand their inner lives to systems that promised clarity. His monastic vantage point sharpened the irony: even religion can become a way to dodge the self, letting “somebody else” do the discerning for you. The intent isn’t isolation; it’s accountability. He’s insisting that authenticity costs something, and that the bill can’t be forwarded.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Merton, Thomas. (2026, January 15). In the last analysis, the individual person is responsible for living his own life and for "finding himself." If he persists in shifting his responsibility to somebody else, he fails to find out the meaning of his own existence. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-last-analysis-the-individual-person-is-2083/
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Merton, Thomas. "In the last analysis, the individual person is responsible for living his own life and for "finding himself." If he persists in shifting his responsibility to somebody else, he fails to find out the meaning of his own existence." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-last-analysis-the-individual-person-is-2083/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In the last analysis, the individual person is responsible for living his own life and for "finding himself." If he persists in shifting his responsibility to somebody else, he fails to find out the meaning of his own existence." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-last-analysis-the-individual-person-is-2083/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.












