"In the U.S., with very few exceptions, actresses older than 35 are simply discarded"
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The specificity of “in the U.S.” is telling. Irving isn’t claiming patriarchy is a uniquely American invention; she’s pointing at a particular entertainment economy that exports youth as a product. American film and TV have long bundled “leading lady” status with a narrow, camera-approved kind of desirability, then built entire casting pipelines around it. The “very few exceptions” clause is both concession and indictment: yes, there are marquee women who remain bankable, but their visibility often functions as a convenient alibi for an otherwise systemic pattern. Exceptions get celebrated precisely because they’re exceptions.
The subtext is about power, not aging. “Older than 35” is less a biological marker than an institutional threshold where roles thin out, salaries flatten, and the center of the story shifts away from women. It’s also a quiet rebuke to the mythology of meritocracy: you can be talented, successful, even famous, and still be treated as replaceable inventory.
Irving’s intent reads as diagnostic rather than self-pitying. She’s naming a rule the industry prefers to keep informal, because informal rules are harder to challenge.
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| Topic | Aging |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Irving, Amy. (2026, January 17). In the U.S., with very few exceptions, actresses older than 35 are simply discarded. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-us-with-very-few-exceptions-actresses-75399/
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Irving, Amy. "In the U.S., with very few exceptions, actresses older than 35 are simply discarded." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-us-with-very-few-exceptions-actresses-75399/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In the U.S., with very few exceptions, actresses older than 35 are simply discarded." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-the-us-with-very-few-exceptions-actresses-75399/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





