"In time, she learned to develop her own opinion of the people that she worked for, and she got stronger. Think she's now much stronger. In the beginning she wanted to believe she was strong but sometimes she faltered"
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Strength here isn’t a personality trait; it’s a skill built under pressure. Gillian Anderson frames resilience as something earned in the unglamorous parts of working life: the slow realization that your bosses, collaborators, or gatekeepers are just people, and that your survival depends on forming your own judgment about them. The line “people that she worked for” quietly foregrounds hierarchy. This isn’t a pep talk about confidence in the abstract; it’s about power, employment, and the gradual shift from pleasing authority to assessing it.
The quote’s intent is to demystify “being strong” as a finished identity. Anderson splits it into phases: early self-concept (“she wanted to believe she was strong”), the inevitable proof-testing (“sometimes she faltered”), and the later competence (“she got stronger”). That arc lands because it refuses the myth of seamless empowerment. “Faltered” is doing heavy emotional work: it acknowledges missteps without turning them into failure, a word that would invite shame. Instead, faltering becomes evidence that she was actually in the arena, not just performing toughness.
There’s also a subtle third-person distancing that suggests she’s talking about herself while keeping a protective layer intact. It reads like an actor’s way of narrating growth without turning it into confession. The repetition of “stronger” feels almost corrective, like she’s answering a skeptical audience - or a younger self - and insisting the change is real, measurable, and hard-won.
The quote’s intent is to demystify “being strong” as a finished identity. Anderson splits it into phases: early self-concept (“she wanted to believe she was strong”), the inevitable proof-testing (“sometimes she faltered”), and the later competence (“she got stronger”). That arc lands because it refuses the myth of seamless empowerment. “Faltered” is doing heavy emotional work: it acknowledges missteps without turning them into failure, a word that would invite shame. Instead, faltering becomes evidence that she was actually in the arena, not just performing toughness.
There’s also a subtle third-person distancing that suggests she’s talking about herself while keeping a protective layer intact. It reads like an actor’s way of narrating growth without turning it into confession. The repetition of “stronger” feels almost corrective, like she’s answering a skeptical audience - or a younger self - and insisting the change is real, measurable, and hard-won.
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| Topic | Confidence |
|---|---|
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