"Initially, I know that I handled it worse than she did and I think partly because I've always been... every bit of adversity I've faced up until the last year and a half is adversity I brought upon myself - or the opposing teams have given me"
About this Quote
The pivot is in that time stamp: “the last year and a half.” It’s a quiet admission that something has changed from football pain to life pain, from controllable consequences to grief or illness or scandal (the quote’s “she” signals a domestic, intimate storyline rather than a locker-room one). His subtext is that he wasn’t emotionally literate for adversity that couldn’t be solved with toughness. When he says he handled it “worse than she did,” he’s also acknowledging a gendered script: men, especially iconic athletes, are expected to perform resilience, yet often rely on the very narrow toolkit of competition and self-blame.
What makes the quote work is its reluctant humility. Favre isn’t selling redemption; he’s admitting that the only suffering he knew how to process was the kind with a scoreboard. The real disturbance is realizing that some losses aren’t earned, and therefore can’t be willed away.
Quote Details
| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Favre, Brett. (2026, January 18). Initially, I know that I handled it worse than she did and I think partly because I've always been... every bit of adversity I've faced up until the last year and a half is adversity I brought upon myself - or the opposing teams have given me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/initially-i-know-that-i-handled-it-worse-than-she-13975/
Chicago Style
Favre, Brett. "Initially, I know that I handled it worse than she did and I think partly because I've always been... every bit of adversity I've faced up until the last year and a half is adversity I brought upon myself - or the opposing teams have given me." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/initially-i-know-that-i-handled-it-worse-than-she-13975/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Initially, I know that I handled it worse than she did and I think partly because I've always been... every bit of adversity I've faced up until the last year and a half is adversity I brought upon myself - or the opposing teams have given me." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/initially-i-know-that-i-handled-it-worse-than-she-13975/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.






