"Instead of hating, I have chosen to forgive and spend all of my positive energy on changing the world"
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The sentence is built on a deliberate pivot. “Instead of hating” acknowledges a tempting, socially understandable response; it doesn’t pretend anger is irrational. “I have chosen” plants agency right in the middle of that temptation, insisting forgiveness is not a feeling that descends but a decision you rehearse. Then she widens the frame to “changing the world,” a phrase that could sound grandiose if it weren’t anchored by the prior accounting of energy. She’s not promising instant transformation; she’s describing a method of staying in the fight long enough to matter.
Culturally, the quote lands in a moment when “call-out” heat and personal branding often reward outrage. Manheim’s move is quietly contrarian: refuse the algorithm of resentment, redirect attention toward work. It’s less about letting others off the hook than about keeping yourself free to act.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Manheim, Camryn. (2026, January 17). Instead of hating, I have chosen to forgive and spend all of my positive energy on changing the world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/instead-of-hating-i-have-chosen-to-forgive-and-42948/
Chicago Style
Manheim, Camryn. "Instead of hating, I have chosen to forgive and spend all of my positive energy on changing the world." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/instead-of-hating-i-have-chosen-to-forgive-and-42948/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Instead of hating, I have chosen to forgive and spend all of my positive energy on changing the world." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/instead-of-hating-i-have-chosen-to-forgive-and-42948/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









