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Aging & Wisdom Quote by Meryl Streep

"Interestingly, young people don't come to you for advice. Especially the ones who are related to you"

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Streep lands this with the casual precision of someone who has watched a thousand family dynamics play out offstage: the people most in need of guidance are often the least interested in receiving it, and genetics only sharpens the resistance. The opening word, "Interestingly", is doing sly work. It softens the blow, as if she’s merely reporting a quirky social fact, while smuggling in a rueful truth about power, ego, and intimacy. Advice is never just information; it’s a bid for authority. From a parent, aunt, or older sibling, it can feel less like help and more like a verdict.

The punchline - "Especially the ones who are related to you" - flips the expected hierarchy. We’re told family is where wisdom transfers down the line. Streep suggests the opposite: familiarity breeds not just contempt, but selective deafness. Relatives know your flaws, your hypocrisy, your history. They remember you when you were wrong, messy, or unformed, so your hard-won life lessons arrive pre-discounted. Strangers can mythologize your competence; family has receipts.

Coming from an actress, the subtext gets richer. Streep’s public image is competence incarnate, a person whose craft looks like mastery. Yet in the private sphere, even mastery doesn’t buy you deference. That’s the quiet joke: fame can make the world listen, but it doesn’t make your kids return your calls for guidance. The line isn’t cynical so much as liberating - a reminder that advice often serves the giver’s need to matter, and that love sometimes looks like letting people learn the long way.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Streep, Meryl. (2026, January 17). Interestingly, young people don't come to you for advice. Especially the ones who are related to you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/interestingly-young-people-dont-come-to-you-for-33359/

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Streep, Meryl. "Interestingly, young people don't come to you for advice. Especially the ones who are related to you." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/interestingly-young-people-dont-come-to-you-for-33359/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Interestingly, young people don't come to you for advice. Especially the ones who are related to you." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/interestingly-young-people-dont-come-to-you-for-33359/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Meryl Streep (born June 22, 1949) is a Actress from USA.

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