"Interestingly, young people don't come to you for advice. Especially the ones who are related to you"
About this Quote
The punchline - "Especially the ones who are related to you" - flips the expected hierarchy. We’re told family is where wisdom transfers down the line. Streep suggests the opposite: familiarity breeds not just contempt, but selective deafness. Relatives know your flaws, your hypocrisy, your history. They remember you when you were wrong, messy, or unformed, so your hard-won life lessons arrive pre-discounted. Strangers can mythologize your competence; family has receipts.
Coming from an actress, the subtext gets richer. Streep’s public image is competence incarnate, a person whose craft looks like mastery. Yet in the private sphere, even mastery doesn’t buy you deference. That’s the quiet joke: fame can make the world listen, but it doesn’t make your kids return your calls for guidance. The line isn’t cynical so much as liberating - a reminder that advice often serves the giver’s need to matter, and that love sometimes looks like letting people learn the long way.
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Streep, Meryl. (2026, January 17). Interestingly, young people don't come to you for advice. Especially the ones who are related to you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/interestingly-young-people-dont-come-to-you-for-33359/
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Streep, Meryl. "Interestingly, young people don't come to you for advice. Especially the ones who are related to you." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/interestingly-young-people-dont-come-to-you-for-33359/.
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"Interestingly, young people don't come to you for advice. Especially the ones who are related to you." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/interestingly-young-people-dont-come-to-you-for-33359/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











