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Daily Inspiration Quote by Amanda Seyfried

"Intimacy is a wonderful thing. It's frustrating that growing up I thought it was wrong. It isn't. Exploring your sexuality is important when you're growing up"

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She starts with a soft word - "wonderful" - and then tightens the screw: "It's frustrating". That pivot is the engine of the quote. Seyfried isn’t offering a scandalous confession so much as naming a common piece of cultural damage: the way shame gets smuggled into adolescence under the banner of "good upbringing". By framing her past belief ("I thought it was wrong") as something she grew up into - rather than something inherently hers - she points to the real culprit: inherited scripts about what young people, especially young women, are allowed to want.

The insistence of "It isn't" reads like a corrective delivered to her younger self, but it’s also aimed at the audience that still polices that old rule. The subtext is blunt: discomfort around teen sexuality often masquerades as concern, yet it leaves people unequipped to understand boundaries, pleasure, consent, and self-definition. "Exploring" does a lot of work here. It suggests agency and learning rather than performance or promiscuity, pushing back on the tired binary where sexuality is either repressed or punished.

Context matters: coming from a mainstream actress, this isn’t niche sex-positivity discourse - it’s a public figure laundering a once-taboo topic into everyday language. The quote doesn’t glamorize sex; it normalizes developmental curiosity as part of growing up, and it treats intimacy not as a moral test but as a human skill. That’s precisely why it lands.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Seyfried, Amanda. (2026, January 17). Intimacy is a wonderful thing. It's frustrating that growing up I thought it was wrong. It isn't. Exploring your sexuality is important when you're growing up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/intimacy-is-a-wonderful-thing-its-frustrating-56404/

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Seyfried, Amanda. "Intimacy is a wonderful thing. It's frustrating that growing up I thought it was wrong. It isn't. Exploring your sexuality is important when you're growing up." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/intimacy-is-a-wonderful-thing-its-frustrating-56404/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Intimacy is a wonderful thing. It's frustrating that growing up I thought it was wrong. It isn't. Exploring your sexuality is important when you're growing up." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/intimacy-is-a-wonderful-thing-its-frustrating-56404/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Amanda Seyfried

Amanda Seyfried (born December 3, 1985) is a Actress from USA.

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