"Is there some principal of nature which states that we never know the quality of what we have until it is gone?"
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The key word is "quality". Melville isn't talking about having something in the crude sense (ownership, possession) but about its felt texture: the moral or emotional grain of a person, a home, a moment of safety. We "have" it while failing to apprehend its full value, because familiarity dulls perception and because the present feels renewable until it suddenly isn't. Only absence gives us the contrast sharp enough to see what was there.
Contextually, this fits Melville's larger preoccupation with human misrecognition: characters who misread signs, mistake control for mastery, confuse endurance with immunity. It's a bleakly democratic insight. The sea, the city, the family table - whatever the setting, Melville suggests we are designed to squander our own lives in real time, then narrate them with clarity only after the plot has closed.
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| Topic | Gratitude |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Melville, Herman. (2026, January 15). Is there some principal of nature which states that we never know the quality of what we have until it is gone? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/is-there-some-principal-of-nature-which-states-23149/
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Melville, Herman. "Is there some principal of nature which states that we never know the quality of what we have until it is gone?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/is-there-some-principal-of-nature-which-states-23149/.
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"Is there some principal of nature which states that we never know the quality of what we have until it is gone?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/is-there-some-principal-of-nature-which-states-23149/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.










