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Daily Inspiration Quote by Thomas Wolfe

"Is this not the true romantic feeling; not to desire to escape life, but to prevent life from escaping you"

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Romance, for Wolfe, is not a getaway car. It is a grip.

That reversal is the engine of the line: he takes the stock fantasy of romance as escape from the blunt weight of living and flips it into a fiercer ambition - to keep experience from slipping through your fingers. The question form is doing quiet pressure work. It doesn’t merely assert a definition; it recruits the reader into agreement, as if the “true” romantic feeling has always been there, misnamed. Wolfe’s romanticism isn’t candlelight, it’s custody.

The subtext is anxiety about time and attention. “Life” appears twice, but the verbs change the stakes: first, we’re tempted to flee it; then we’re warned it can flee us. That second possibility is more unsettling because it suggests passivity as the real threat - days lost to habit, distraction, timidity, the dull creep of adulthood. Wolfe frames romance as an act of resistance against that erosion, a way of insisting that moments count before they dissolve into memory.

Context matters: Wolfe’s novels (especially Look Homeward, Angel) are powered by appetite - for cities, bodies, language, sensation - and by the sorrow of transience. Writing itself becomes the romantic technology here: a method to “prevent life from escaping” by pinning it to the page, not as a record but as an attempt to outpace mortality. It’s a credo for anyone who suspects the tragedy isn’t that life is hard, but that it’s fast.

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TopicRomantic
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Unverified source: You Can't Go Home Again (Thomas Wolfe, 1940)
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Wolfe, Thomas. (2026, January 13). Is this not the true romantic feeling; not to desire to escape life, but to prevent life from escaping you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/is-this-not-the-true-romantic-feeling-not-to-169135/

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Wolfe, Thomas. "Is this not the true romantic feeling; not to desire to escape life, but to prevent life from escaping you." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/is-this-not-the-true-romantic-feeling-not-to-169135/.

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"Is this not the true romantic feeling; not to desire to escape life, but to prevent life from escaping you." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/is-this-not-the-true-romantic-feeling-not-to-169135/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Thomas Wolfe (October 3, 1900 - September 15, 1938) was a Novelist from USA.

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