"Isn't it strange that we talk least about the things we think about most?"
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The subtext is that our most persistent thoughts are the ones most likely to be socially risky, emotionally raw, or simply inexpressible without distortion. We talk around them with safer proxy topics: weather, work, other people’s dramas. Lindbergh turns that evasiveness into a kind of human constant, but there’s a personal edge. His life was lived under extreme scrutiny, from the triumph of the Atlantic crossing to the trauma of his child’s kidnapping to his toxic entanglement with America First politics. In that world, silence isn’t just temperament; it’s strategy. Speaking can make you a symbol, and symbols get flattened.
The quote also works because it’s built as a gentle trap. “Isn’t it strange” invites agreement, then forces self-audit: what do you avoid naming? In 15 words, Lindbergh reframes silence as evidence, not absence. The loudest thoughts are the ones we’ve learned not to say out loud.
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