"It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves"
About this Quote
The subtext is both liberating and unsettling. If meaning comes from the angle of view, then suffering can be intensified or softened by interpretation. But it also means we are implicated in our own realities: our resentments, our recurring relationship patterns, our sense of being cursed or overlooked. Jung’s larger project - the shadow, projection, individuation - sits behind this sentence. People don’t just misread events; they outsource parts of themselves onto others, then react as if those projections were “how things are in themselves.” The quote politely detonates the fantasy of objectivity.
Context matters: Jung is writing in the early 20th century, when Freud’s drive-based model was remaking the self into a battleground and modernity was scrambling old certainties. Jung’s twist is to treat the mind as symbol-making, story-hungry, and stubbornly creative. Read now, it lands like a rebuke to hot-take culture and algorithmic certainty: you can feel absolutely right and still be trapped inside your lens. The challenge isn’t to find the pure thing-in-itself; it’s to notice the fingerprints you leave on everything you touch.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jung, Carl. (2026, January 15). It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-all-depends-on-how-we-look-at-things-and-not-30383/
Chicago Style
Jung, Carl. "It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-all-depends-on-how-we-look-at-things-and-not-30383/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-all-depends-on-how-we-look-at-things-and-not-30383/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









