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Daily Inspiration Quote by Carl Jung

"It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves"

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Reality, Jung suggests, is less a hard surface than a mirror: the world arrives already filtered through temperament, fear, desire, and the private mythology each of us mistakes for plain sight. The line has the tidy snap of a proverb, but its intent is clinical. Jung isn’t waving away facts; he’s warning that the psyche is an active editor, not a passive camera. “How we look” is doing the work here - perception as an act, a choice, sometimes a defense.

The subtext is both liberating and unsettling. If meaning comes from the angle of view, then suffering can be intensified or softened by interpretation. But it also means we are implicated in our own realities: our resentments, our recurring relationship patterns, our sense of being cursed or overlooked. Jung’s larger project - the shadow, projection, individuation - sits behind this sentence. People don’t just misread events; they outsource parts of themselves onto others, then react as if those projections were “how things are in themselves.” The quote politely detonates the fantasy of objectivity.

Context matters: Jung is writing in the early 20th century, when Freud’s drive-based model was remaking the self into a battleground and modernity was scrambling old certainties. Jung’s twist is to treat the mind as symbol-making, story-hungry, and stubbornly creative. Read now, it lands like a rebuke to hot-take culture and algorithmic certainty: you can feel absolutely right and still be trapped inside your lens. The challenge isn’t to find the pure thing-in-itself; it’s to notice the fingerprints you leave on everything you touch.

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TopicWisdom
Source
Verified source: Modern Man in Search of a Soul (Carl Jung, 1933)
Text match: 99.38%   Provider: Cross-Reference
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For it all depends on how we look at things, and not on how they are in themselves. (Page 67 (in the essay/chapter "The Aims of Psychotherapy")). This line appears in Jung's book Modern Man in Search of a Soul (English translation by W. S. Dell and Cary F. Baynes). In the accessible scan consulted, the sentence occurs on page 67, immediately followed by: "The least of things with a meaning is worth more in life than the greatest of things without it." The commonly-circulated shorter quote (without the leading "For") is a truncated form of the same sentence, not a separate/earlier utterance. Because Modern Man in Search of a Soul is a 1933 English collection of essays/lectures, this confirms a primary Jung source for the wording in English, but it may not be the first-ever appearance of the idea in German lectures/essays prior to 1933.
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Jung, Carl. (2026, February 26). It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-all-depends-on-how-we-look-at-things-and-not-30383/

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Jung, Carl. "It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves." FixQuotes. February 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-all-depends-on-how-we-look-at-things-and-not-30383/.

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"It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves." FixQuotes, 26 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-all-depends-on-how-we-look-at-things-and-not-30383/. Accessed 14 Mar. 2026.

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Carl Jung (July 26, 1875 - June 6, 1961) was a Psychologist from Switzerland.

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