"It belongs to the imperfection of everything human that man can only attain his desire by passing through its opposite"
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The subtext is deeply Kierkegaardian: wanting something truly meaningful (faith, love, selfhood, ethical integrity) isn’t like shopping with a checklist. Desire is bound up with anxiety, doubt, and contradiction, because the self is not a stable thing but a task. Passing “through its opposite” names the dialectical trap of existence: you become courageous by meeting fear, honest by confronting self-deception, faithful by enduring the felt absence of certainty. The opposite isn’t an external obstacle; it’s the internal shadow that gives the desire weight.
Context matters. Kierkegaard is writing against the tidy, system-building confidence of Hegelian philosophy and against the cozy Christianity of his Denmark, where belief can look like social compliance. He insists that truth is lived, not merely concluded. That makes the line a critique of shortcut culture before shortcut culture existed: the fantasy that you can optimize your way around despair.
Rhetorically, it works because it refuses comfort while offering a strange consolation. If your path feels like contradiction, you’re not doing it wrong; you’re doing it human.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Humans (Matt Haig, 2014) modern compilationISBN: 9781476730592 · ID: OwA7BAAAQBAJ
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... It belongs to the imperfection of everything human that man can only attain his desire by passing through its opposite . -SØREN KIERKEGAARD , The Journals An Encounter with Winston Churchill I walked to the nearest. Haig_Humans_PB_2P_yc ... |
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