"It can be difficult sometimes because I think people do forget that you are a person. They see you as an athlete and they're rooting for their favorite person, and when you lose, they say all types of things about you"
About this Quote
Her phrasing matters. "They're rooting for their favorite person" sounds warm at first, but it carries a condition: favorite only while the performance holds. The second clause exposes the trap. Once "you lose", affection curdles into abuse. Gauff is describing a culture that treats athletes less like human beings than like emotional service workers, expected to deliver pride, entertainment, and self-esteem on demand.
There is also a generational sharpness here. Gauff came of age in a sports world inseparable from social media, where criticism is not filtered through columnists or postgame shows but delivered directly, brutally, and often anonymously. As a young Black woman in tennis, she also inhabits a space where scrutiny is never just about technique or results; it can carry entitlement, projection, and hostility that exceed the match itself.
What makes the quote effective is its refusal to posture as a grand manifesto. It is modest, almost conversational, which makes the indictment harder to evade. Gauff is not asking for pity. She is insisting on the minimum recognition fame tends to erase: the athlete is still a person when she loses.
Quote Details
| Topic | Defeat |
|---|---|
| Source | US Open quotebook, Day 9 press conference (September 5, 2023) |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gauff, Coco. (2026, March 17). It can be difficult sometimes because I think people do forget that you are a person. They see you as an athlete and they're rooting for their favorite person, and when you lose, they say all types of things about you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-can-be-difficult-sometimes-because-i-think-186133/
Chicago Style
Gauff, Coco. "It can be difficult sometimes because I think people do forget that you are a person. They see you as an athlete and they're rooting for their favorite person, and when you lose, they say all types of things about you." FixQuotes. March 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-can-be-difficult-sometimes-because-i-think-186133/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It can be difficult sometimes because I think people do forget that you are a person. They see you as an athlete and they're rooting for their favorite person, and when you lose, they say all types of things about you." FixQuotes, 17 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-can-be-difficult-sometimes-because-i-think-186133/. Accessed 17 Mar. 2026.





