"It has been an ache and a joy both to look over this big shoulder of mine at all my yesterdays"
About this Quote
Waters came up through vaudeville, Blues, Broadway, and Hollywood at a time when a Black woman’s success was rarely allowed to be uncomplicated. “Yesterdays” isn’t just nostalgia; it’s a ledger. It hints at the humiliations that get edited out of showbiz mythmaking: segregated venues, limited roles, the constant bargaining between selfhood and survival. Yet she won’t let pain have the final billing. Calling it “joy” is a quiet flex - proof that the past didn’t only happen to her; she also made something in it, something worth claiming.
The “big shoulder” also suggests celebrity’s posture: the body trained to carry expectations, to keep moving, to take the hit and hit the mark. Looking over it implies she’s not turning around completely. There’s agency in that angle. She’s acknowledging history without letting it swallow the present - a veteran’s glance, equal parts tenderness and steel.
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| Topic | Nostalgia |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Waters, Ethel. (n.d.). It has been an ache and a joy both to look over this big shoulder of mine at all my yesterdays. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-been-an-ache-and-a-joy-both-to-look-over-146182/
Chicago Style
Waters, Ethel. "It has been an ache and a joy both to look over this big shoulder of mine at all my yesterdays." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-been-an-ache-and-a-joy-both-to-look-over-146182/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It has been an ache and a joy both to look over this big shoulder of mine at all my yesterdays." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-been-an-ache-and-a-joy-both-to-look-over-146182/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.





