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Happiness Quote by Ethel Waters

"It has been an ache and a joy both to look over this big shoulder of mine at all my yesterdays"

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That “big shoulder” does a lot of work: it’s physical, theatrical, and protective all at once. Ethel Waters is looking back like a performer who’s survived the set, the tour, the era - and is still onstage enough to narrate it with style. The line refuses the neat, inspirational arc. Instead, it offers memory as a double exposure: ache and joy sharing the same frame, the way applause can’t fully drown out what it cost to earn it.

Waters came up through vaudeville, Blues, Broadway, and Hollywood at a time when a Black woman’s success was rarely allowed to be uncomplicated. “Yesterdays” isn’t just nostalgia; it’s a ledger. It hints at the humiliations that get edited out of showbiz mythmaking: segregated venues, limited roles, the constant bargaining between selfhood and survival. Yet she won’t let pain have the final billing. Calling it “joy” is a quiet flex - proof that the past didn’t only happen to her; she also made something in it, something worth claiming.

The “big shoulder” also suggests celebrity’s posture: the body trained to carry expectations, to keep moving, to take the hit and hit the mark. Looking over it implies she’s not turning around completely. There’s agency in that angle. She’s acknowledging history without letting it swallow the present - a veteran’s glance, equal parts tenderness and steel.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Waters, Ethel. (n.d.). It has been an ache and a joy both to look over this big shoulder of mine at all my yesterdays. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-been-an-ache-and-a-joy-both-to-look-over-146182/

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Waters, Ethel. "It has been an ache and a joy both to look over this big shoulder of mine at all my yesterdays." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-been-an-ache-and-a-joy-both-to-look-over-146182/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It has been an ache and a joy both to look over this big shoulder of mine at all my yesterdays." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-been-an-ache-and-a-joy-both-to-look-over-146182/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Ethel Waters (October 31, 1896 - September 1, 1977) was a Musician from USA.

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