"It has to be real, and I think a lot of the problems we have as a society is because we don't acknowledge that family is important, and it has to be people who are present, you know, and mothers and fathers, both are not present enough with children"
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The phrasing is tellingly blunt and slightly tangled, like someone pushing past talking points to name a discomforting truth. "A lot of the problems we have as a society" is intentionally broad, almost dangerously so, but the subtext is narrower: kids are being raised in an economy and culture that treats attention as optional and exhaustion as normal. His emphasis on "present" isn’t nostalgic; it’s practical. Presence means time, steadiness, accountability - things modern life often prices out.
He also insists on "mothers and fathers", a move that signals traditional two-parent language without explicitly condemning other family structures. The intent feels less like culture-war policing and more like a plea against the normalization of disengagement, especially from men, who have historically been given more permission to be physically or emotionally missing.
Context matters: Jones grew up with a complicated relationship to speech and connection, famously struggling with a severe stutter. For him, "being present" isn’t a slogan. It’s a hard-won skill, a daily choice, and he’s implying society is choosing against it.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jones, James Earl. (2026, January 16). It has to be real, and I think a lot of the problems we have as a society is because we don't acknowledge that family is important, and it has to be people who are present, you know, and mothers and fathers, both are not present enough with children. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-to-be-real-and-i-think-a-lot-of-the-95431/
Chicago Style
Jones, James Earl. "It has to be real, and I think a lot of the problems we have as a society is because we don't acknowledge that family is important, and it has to be people who are present, you know, and mothers and fathers, both are not present enough with children." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-to-be-real-and-i-think-a-lot-of-the-95431/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It has to be real, and I think a lot of the problems we have as a society is because we don't acknowledge that family is important, and it has to be people who are present, you know, and mothers and fathers, both are not present enough with children." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-has-to-be-real-and-i-think-a-lot-of-the-95431/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







