"It is a curious thought, but it is only when you see people looking ridiculous that you realize just how much you love them"
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The phrase “curious thought” is classic Christie misdirection. She presents the idea as a mild observation, then delivers something quietly barbed about human judgment. Ridiculousness usually triggers distance: embarrassment, contempt, the quick instinct to edit someone out of your social narrative. Christie flips the reflex. The ridiculous becomes the stress test for intimacy, because it forces a decision: do you protect them in your mind, laugh with them, or laugh at them?
There’s also a writer’s eye in it. Christie spent a career watching how people perform normalcy and how easily that performance breaks. In her world, the smallest social slip can expose character; the same logic is applied to tenderness. The subtext is that love isn’t proven by grand sacrifices but by minor loyalties: staying present when someone’s dignity briefly collapses.
It’s a surprisingly modern ethic, too. In an age of curated selves, Christie suggests the truest measure of attachment is what you do with the uncurated footage.
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Christie, Agatha. (2026, January 18). It is a curious thought, but it is only when you see people looking ridiculous that you realize just how much you love them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-curious-thought-but-it-is-only-when-you-6436/
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Christie, Agatha. "It is a curious thought, but it is only when you see people looking ridiculous that you realize just how much you love them." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-curious-thought-but-it-is-only-when-you-6436/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is a curious thought, but it is only when you see people looking ridiculous that you realize just how much you love them." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-curious-thought-but-it-is-only-when-you-6436/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










