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Daily Inspiration Quote by Brendan Behan

"It is a good deed to forget a poor joke"

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Behan turns mercy into a social weapon: not laughing is easy, but forgetting is an act of charity. "It is a good deed to forget a poor joke" reframes bad humor as a minor offense that should be met with restraint, not retaliation. The line lands because it treats embarrassment like a debt the listener can choose not to collect. In a culture where wit is status and failure is punishable, forgetting becomes a quiet refusal to escalate.

The phrasing is slyly moralistic. "Good deed" borrows the language of saints and civics, then spends it on something petty: a dud joke. That mismatch is the joke, and it’s also the ethics. Behan suggests that everyday kindness isn’t grand gestures; it’s the decision not to archive someone’s flop and trot it out later for sport. The subtext is about power: the audience always has the upper hand. They can freeze a person in their worst moment, or let it pass.

Context matters. Behan, an Irish dramatist with a reputation for barbed humor and hard living, wrote in a milieu where talk was performance and ridicule could be communal entertainment. Pub culture, theatre culture, political culture: all arenas where a line could crown you or hang you. His aphorism reads like a backstage rule for surviving among sharp tongues: don’t make cruelty your hobby. It’s also self-protective, almost confessional. A man who lived by the quick line knew how often the quick line misses, and he’s asking for the one grace that keeps a room human: selective amnesia.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Behan, Brendan. (2026, January 18). It is a good deed to forget a poor joke. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-good-deed-to-forget-a-poor-joke-14026/

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Behan, Brendan. "It is a good deed to forget a poor joke." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-good-deed-to-forget-a-poor-joke-14026/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is a good deed to forget a poor joke." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-good-deed-to-forget-a-poor-joke-14026/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Brendan Behan

Brendan Behan (February 9, 1923 - March 20, 1964) was a Dramatist from Ireland.

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