"It is a good rule never to see or talk to the man whose words have wrung your heart, or helped it, just as it is wise not to look down too closely at the luminous glow which sometimes shines on your path on a summer night, if you would not see the ugly worm below"
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The subtext is about boundaries and the violence of over-familiarity. If someone’s words have reached into you deeply enough to hurt or heal, you’re tempted to make the experience “real” by touching the source: meeting the author, demanding coherence between page and person, converting gratitude into access. Davis calls that impulse a kind of vandalism. Keep the glow at a distance, she suggests, because closeness doesn’t add truth; it adds trivia. You don’t gain the magic’s mechanism without losing the magic.
In context, this reads like a 19th-century writer’s skepticism about celebrity before we had the word for it. It anticipates modern fandom’s mistake: believing that intimacy with a creator will stabilize what their work did for you. Davis’s image insists on the opposite. The glow works precisely because it’s a glow, not a flashlight. The worm is always there; the question is whether you need to see it to keep walking.
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| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Davis, Rebecca H. (2026, January 17). It is a good rule never to see or talk to the man whose words have wrung your heart, or helped it, just as it is wise not to look down too closely at the luminous glow which sometimes shines on your path on a summer night, if you would not see the ugly worm below. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-good-rule-never-to-see-or-talk-to-the-man-79457/
Chicago Style
Davis, Rebecca H. "It is a good rule never to see or talk to the man whose words have wrung your heart, or helped it, just as it is wise not to look down too closely at the luminous glow which sometimes shines on your path on a summer night, if you would not see the ugly worm below." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-good-rule-never-to-see-or-talk-to-the-man-79457/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is a good rule never to see or talk to the man whose words have wrung your heart, or helped it, just as it is wise not to look down too closely at the luminous glow which sometimes shines on your path on a summer night, if you would not see the ugly worm below." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-a-good-rule-never-to-see-or-talk-to-the-man-79457/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.








