"It is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both"
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The subtext is colder than the slogan suggests. Machiavelli isn't cheering cruelty for its own sake; he's warning that a state built on being liked is structurally unstable. Love depends on what subjects hope to get from you. When resources tighten or war arrives, that affection evaporates. Fear, deployed selectively, doesn't require their approval. It requires only their calculation. In The Prince, the ideal isn't sadism but predictability: punishments should be swift, justified, and not constantly reinvented, so people can orient their behavior around a stable threat.
Context sharpens the cynicism. Writing in a splintered, violence-soaked Renaissance Italy, Machiavelli had watched city-states fall, mercenaries switch sides, and moral posturing fail in real time. He was also trying to speak the language of the Medici: practical counsel that might earn him a way back into political life. The line doubles as a rebuke to idealist political theory and as an audition for relevance.
Even the famous caveat - "if you cannot be both" - is the tell. He's not dismissing love; he's ranking reliability. In a crisis, affection is a luxury. Compliance is the job.
Quote Details
| Topic | Leadership |
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| Source | Verified source: The Prince (Il Principe) (Niccolo Machiavelli, 1532)
Evidence: It might perhaps be answered that we should wish to be both; but since love and fear can hardly exist together, if we must choose between them, it is far safer to be feared than loved. (Chapter XVII (Capitolo XVII): "Of Cruelty and Clemency…"). This line appears in Machiavelli’s The Prince, Chapter XVII. The modern short form, "It is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both", is a faithful paraphrase of standard English translations. The treatise was written c. 1513 but first printed/published posthumously in 1532 (Rome), commonly cited as the first publication date. Other candidates (1) Quotes: The Famous and Not so Famous (Terence M. Dorn Ph.D., 2021) compilation95.0% ... Niccolo Machiavelli It is better to be feared than loved , if you cannot be both.- Niccolo Machiavelli He who wis... |
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