"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness"
About this Quote
The subtext is a rebuke, delivered with manners. “Curse the darkness” isn’t just complaining; it’s performance: a way to signal awareness and virtue without accepting risk. Roosevelt, who spent decades watching institutions move glacially and people hide behind cynicism, frames passivity as indulgent. Darkness becomes a convenient alibi. The candle is responsibility.
Context matters. As First Lady, she wasn’t supposed to be a political force, yet she became one anyway: championing civil rights, visiting troops, pushing the country to look at what it preferred to ignore. In the Depression and World War II era, “darkness” wasn’t metaphorical gloom; it was hunger, fascism, segregation, grief. Against that backdrop, the quote reads less like self-help and more like a governing philosophy for citizens in a mass society: your contribution may be small, but it’s measurable, and it changes the room you’re in.
It also contains a quiet power move: it shifts moral status from the loudest critic to the person who actually acts. Cynicism doesn’t get credit here. The match does.
Quote Details
| Topic | Motivational |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Quote Verifier (Ralph Keyes, 2007) modern compilationISBN: 9781429906173 · ID: d6JZryGvfxYC
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"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-better-to-light-a-candle-than-curse-the-19279/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.











