"It is hard for a black man to just be himself. We spend so much time in defense of something that is indefensible because there is nothing to defend"
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"We spend so much time in defense" lands like a musician talking about tempo: time is the real currency being stolen. Not money, not even dignity at first, but hours, attention, creative energy diverted into preemptive explanations. Defense becomes a default posture, a reflex learned from experience, because the surrounding culture assumes guilt, threat, or deficiency that must be argued away.
Then comes the turn: "something that is indefensible because there is nothing to defend". It's a compact dismantling of the entire burden-of-proof trap. Eubanks isn't confessing an inability to justify himself; he's rejecting the premise that Blackness is on trial. The subtext is both political and intimate: the demand to defend your humanity is itself the insult. Coming from a working musician who has lived in public-facing spaces where "professionalism" often codes as whiteness, the quote reads like a refusal to keep translating himself for other people's comfort - and a reminder that the real scandal isn't Black identity, it's the constant insistence that it needs a defense at all.
Quote Details
| Topic | Equality |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Eubanks, Kevin. (2026, January 16). It is hard for a black man to just be himself. We spend so much time in defense of something that is indefensible because there is nothing to defend. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-hard-for-a-black-man-to-just-be-himself-we-92757/
Chicago Style
Eubanks, Kevin. "It is hard for a black man to just be himself. We spend so much time in defense of something that is indefensible because there is nothing to defend." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-hard-for-a-black-man-to-just-be-himself-we-92757/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is hard for a black man to just be himself. We spend so much time in defense of something that is indefensible because there is nothing to defend." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-hard-for-a-black-man-to-just-be-himself-we-92757/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







