Love Quote by Evan Dando

There is a weary shrug baked into the phrasing: "It is hard, though" lands like someone who has already tried the polite version, failed, and is now done pretending the obstacle is abstract. Evan Dando isn’t theorizing about power; he’s naming a familiar villain in the music business with a plainspoken jab: labels "love to boss you around". The word "love" is doing extra work here, turning corporate control into a kind of appetite. It’s not just what they do, it’s what they enjoy.

The subtext is a pivot from youthful dependence to adult boundary-setting, and it’s telling that he frames it in terms of command rather than money. That’s an artist’s grievance: not simply being underpaid, but being managed, branded, scheduled, and edited into something legible to commerce. Dando came up in an era when alternative rock was absorbed by majors who sold "authenticity" while manufacturing it. If you were marketable, you were also malleable. The bossiness wasn’t incidental; it was the business model.

"I won't let them do that anymore" reads like a late-stage manifesto, but it’s also an admission that, for a long time, he did. The line carries the quiet humiliation of having traded autonomy for opportunity, then realizing the exchange rate was brutal. It resonates now because the tools have changed: artists can distribute without gatekeepers, yet the pressure to be controlled has migrated to algorithms, platforms, and constant self-promotion. Dando’s defiance feels less like rock-star posturing than a survival tactic: reclaim your agency or get managed into disappearance.