"It is here, my daughters, that love is to be found - not hidden away in corners but in the midst of occasions of sin. And believe me, although we may more often fail and commit small lapses, our gain will be incomparably the greater"
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The subtext is practical, almost managerial: if you build a spiritual life on the avoidance of failure, you’ll end up worshipping your own control. Teresa treats “small lapses” not as proof of hypocrisy but as predictable data in the long experiment of becoming human in front of God. That’s why “gain” matters more than spotless performance. The risk of failure becomes the cost of doing real charity, real community, real courage. Love isn’t a private mood; it’s an action that only becomes legible under pressure.
Context sharpens the edge. In Counter-Reformation Spain, suspicion, confession culture, and institutional scrutiny were intense. Teresa’s insistence that love is found amid danger is both theological and quietly insurgent: sanctity is not a safe room. It’s a willingness to walk into morally complex spaces and accept bruises, because the alternative is a sterile piety that mistakes fear for virtue.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Avila, Saint Teresa of. (2026, January 18). It is here, my daughters, that love is to be found - not hidden away in corners but in the midst of occasions of sin. And believe me, although we may more often fail and commit small lapses, our gain will be incomparably the greater. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-here-my-daughters-that-love-is-to-be-found-1652/
Chicago Style
Avila, Saint Teresa of. "It is here, my daughters, that love is to be found - not hidden away in corners but in the midst of occasions of sin. And believe me, although we may more often fail and commit small lapses, our gain will be incomparably the greater." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-here-my-daughters-that-love-is-to-be-found-1652/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is here, my daughters, that love is to be found - not hidden away in corners but in the midst of occasions of sin. And believe me, although we may more often fail and commit small lapses, our gain will be incomparably the greater." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-here-my-daughters-that-love-is-to-be-found-1652/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.










